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Abdullah Afzal and Dr Oscar Duke

The Reverend Kate Bottley and Jason Mohammad present ethical and religious issues, with guests and spiritual music.

Comedian Abdullah Afzal plays the character of Amjad Malik in ³ÉÈË¿ìÊÖ One's Citizen Khan. For Father's Day he joins Kate and Jason to talk about the role he has adopted after becoming a father. He says that one of the most challenging aspects about being a Muslim man is trying to keep up a pretence of masculinity. 'Some people in my community saw me as strange because I bottle fed my son and changed his nappy. I feel very uncomfortable and feel judged by people but I don’t let it deter me from being the kind of dad I want to be.'

Joining Abdullah to swap parenting war stories is Dr Oscar Duke. A contributor to The Surgery on Radio 1, Jeremy Vine and ³ÉÈË¿ìÊÖ Breakfast he has written a handbook called, ‘How To Be a Dad’ that he says is a ‘papery man hug in what is a potentially treacherous world of terminology, hormones, social change, sleep deprivation and finally dirty nappies with tiny feet attached.’

We catch up with our Charity Champion Karen Penny, who first appeared on Good Morning Sunday in January. Karen is taking four years out to walk around the entire coast of Ireland and mainland UK to raise £100,000 for Alzheimer’s Research. On Sunday, Karen will arrive at her family home for a very brief pit stop having completed the walk around Ireland. Karen tells us how it has gone so far before she sets of for her long walk around the UK.

And Buddhist Alison Murdoch reflects on Saka Dawa, the Tibetan Buddhist celebration of the Buddha's birth, enlightenment and death and explains why Buddhism is still more relevant than ever.

2 hours, 55 minutes

Last on

Sun 16 Jun 2019 06:00

Music Played

  • Eurythmics

    There Must Be An Angel (Playing With My Heart)

    • The Female Touch 2 (Various Artists).
    • Global Television.
  • Craig David

    When You Know What Love Is

    • (CD Single).
    • Insanity Records.
  • Jacy Mai

    Taste and See

  • Rita Ora

    Anywhere

    • (CD Single).
    • Atlantic.
  • Kirk Franklin

    Smile

  • Journey

    Don't Stop Believin'

    • Rock Of America (Various Artists).
    • Trax Label.
  • Bananarama

    Looking For Someone

    • In Stereo.
    • BMG.
  • for KING & COUNTRY

    God Only Knows

  • Simple Minds

    Promised You A Miracle

    • The Best Of Simple Minds.
    • Virgin.
  • The Shapeshifters

    Life Is A Dancefloor (feat. Kimberly Davis)

    • (CD Single).
    • Defected.
  • Sub Sub

    Ain't No Love (Ain't No Use) (feat. Melanie Williams)

    • (CD Single).
    • Rob's.
  • Razorlight

    America

    • (CD Single).
    • Vertigo.
  • Diana Ross

    I'm Coming Out

    • Diana Ross & The Supremes - 40 Motown.
    • Polygram Tv.
  • Jess Glynne & Jax Jones

    One Touch

    • Now That's What I Call Music! 103 (Various Artists).
    • Now.
  • Michael Bublé

    It's A Beautiful Day

    • (CD Single).
    • Reprise.
    • 1.
  • Stevie Wonder

    Isn't She Lovely

    • Songs In The Key Of Life Vol.2.
    • Hitsville.
  • R.E.M.

    Losing My Religion

    • R.E.M. - Out Of Time.
    • Warner Bros.
  • Sigala vs Becky Hill

    Wish You Well

    • (CD Single).
    • Ministry Of Sound.
  • Mike + the Mechanics

    The Living Years

    • Now 1989 (Various Artists).
    • Now.
    • 4.
  • Bastille

    Joy

    • (CD Single).
    • Virgin Records.
  • Pet Shop Boys

    Always On My Mind

    • Pet Shop Boys - Discography.
    • Parlophone.
  • ABBA

    Voulez-Vous

    • Abba Gold.
    • Polydor.
    • 013.
  • Will Young

    My Love

    • Lexicon.
    • Cooking Vinyl.
  • Dolly Parton

    9 to 5

    • Dolly Parton: The Ultimate Collection.
    • BMG/RCA.
  • Katy Perry

    Roar

    • (CD Single).
    • Capitol.
    • 1.
  • Blondie

    Call Me

    • Atomic: The Very Best Of Blondie.
    • EMI.
  • ABC

    All Of My Heart

    • In Touch II (Various Artists).
    • Solitaire Collection.
  • Kylie Minogue

    New York City

    • Step Back In Time: The Definitive Collection.
    • BMG.
  • Cheat Codes & Little Mix

    Only You

    • (CD Single).
    • SYCO.

Abdullah Afzal

Abdullah Afzal

To mark Father’s Day, Kate and Jason are joined by two young dads who tell them about their approach to being a father in 2019. Muslim, Abdullah Afzal is an actor and comedian who has appeared in Citizen Khan.

After his mum died when he was 15, his sisters stepped in to bring him up. Abdullah loves bottle feeding his son and changing his nappy. But his ‘hands on approach’ to being a dad has been frowned on by older members of his community. He explains why more Muslim men are dumping the traditional parenting roles they grew up and are embracing shared parenting.

Dr Oscar Duke

Dr Oscar Duke
Joining Abdullah to swap parenting war stories is Dr Oscar Duke. A regular contributor to The Surgery on Radio 1, Jeremy Vine and ³ÉÈË¿ìÊÖ Breakfast he has written a handbook called, ‘How To Be a Dad’ that he says is a ‘papery man hug in what is a potentially treacherous world of terminology, hormones, social change, sleep deprivation and finally dirty nappies with tiny feet attached.’

Broadcast

  • Sun 16 Jun 2019 06:00