Why Value Yourself?
A person鈥檚 sense of who they are and the value they hold depends on many things. For example:
- Who they think they are
- What they believe about themselves
- What story they are inhabiting
Identity is something that gets formed in a person from the moment they are born. Very often in families growing up, people become known by a specific attribute, for example; the sensitive one, the shy one, the loud one.
This can become a positive or negative thing, and it begins to shape a person from a very young age.
Growing up people often elevate certain parts of who they are, where they come from, circumstances they find themselves in and look for identity, meaning and purpose in those things.
Everyone has a personal narrative that gives meaning to their lives and fears.
Narratives can be true or false and they influence how people view themselves. Some negative narratives might be:
- No one notices me
- I鈥檓 ugly
- I鈥檓 not good at anything
- No one would want to be friends with me
In Genesis it says humans were 鈥榗reated in the image of God鈥. The word created implies design, intention, made with purpose. Christians believe God made humans with intrinsic value.
Did you know?
No two people in the world have:
the same DNA 鈥 except genetically identical twins
the same fingerprints 鈥 even identical twins
the same pattern in the iris of their eye.
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Some people have a DistortedWhen a person views themselves in a way that is not accurate - them may have a negative view of their physical appearance, values, intelligence, or talents. view of their life and as a consequence have very low self-esteem. Sometimes people struggle to face who they really are and want to live another person鈥檚 story.
This is one of the greatest pressures that social media puts on people.
69% of social media users admitted they felt shame about their untruths and cannot live up to their online images.
Often what people believe about themselves to be true, crowds out the reality of who they are: a unique individual with intrinsic value.
Christians believe identity is not self-motivated, a person cannot try hard to get it. It is God given.
What the Bible says about a person's value
Christians believe a person鈥檚 value and worth comes from God who created them. The Bible is full of verses that say each person is:
- Accepted: John 1:12 I am God鈥檚 Child
- Secure: Philippians 1:6 I am confident that God will complete the good work He started in me
- Significant: Ephesians 2:10 I am God's workmanship
Christian鈥檚 believe every person is valuable with a specific set of giftings and talents.
All the things that makes a person unique were intentional on God鈥檚 part. It is these things that enable a person to perfectly fulfil their purpose that God created them for.
Everyone is different and so people鈥檚 purposes are different too.
The Parable of the Talents 鈥 Matthew 25: 14-30
This parable encourages people to use the gifts and talents God has given them.
At the time of Jesus, the term 'talent' denoted 'money.' However, when interpreted in today's context, the parable emphasises the idea that talents grow when they are used.
This inspires Christians not to hide their abilities but to employ and develop them for positive impact.
- Regardless of what skill an individual excels at, the parable emphasises the distinctiveness and inherent worthiness of each person in the eyes of God.
Katie Piper 鈥 An Inspirational Story
Katie Piper is an English writer, activist, television presenter and model.
In March 2008, she was鈥痑ttacked with acid by her ex-boyfriend and an accomplice, causing major damage to her face and blindness in one eye. Piper underwent pioneering surgery to restore her face and vision. Both attackers were convicted and given life sentences.
In 2009, Piper gave up her right to anonymity in order to increase awareness about burn victims. Her experience was documented in the 2009鈥疌hannel 4鈥痙ocumentary鈥Katie: My Beautiful Face鈥痯art of the鈥Cutting Edge鈥痵别谤颈别蝉.
Her main work has been for the Katie Piper Foundation, which she founded to help victims of burns and other disfigurement injuries.
"I don't have to pretend to be someone I'm not and I think talking so openly about my story gave me acceptance that it's ok to be me.鈥 鈥 Katie Piper
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