The checklist of things you need for a newborn can seem never-ending and if you鈥檙e on a tight budget, this might cause extra stress at a time you really don鈥檛 need any more.
We鈥檝e asked new parents and experts to separate the new baby essentials from the nice-to-haves, and not-to-haves.
鈥淢y top tip is that you shouldn鈥檛 go overboard: focus on the essentials initially, as you may get other things as gifts,鈥 says Pamela Mills, an NHS midwife based in Greater Manchester.
Remember that you don鈥檛 need everything immediately 鈥 especially when your baby is so young. Give yourself a little more time so you have the breathing space to decide what鈥檚 useful and what鈥檚 not.
It may seem like you need a lot, but you can strip the list down, buy second-hand and borrow what you can - you鈥檒l be surprised how much stuff your friends and family will have squirrelled away (and be relieved to get rid of).
New baby checklist
鈥淎 wise lady in a baby shop gave me some great advice when I was pregnant that stuck with me: as long as you鈥檝e got stuff sorted for eating, sleeping and travelling, you鈥檙e sorted for when they鈥檙e newborn,鈥 says mum Claire.
| What? | Why? |
|---|---|
| Nappies | Disposable or reusable, you鈥檒l need a lot. 鈥淕et a nappy bin, or try inexpensive, fragrant nappy sacks,鈥 says Pam. |
| Somewhere for them to sleep | There are few options here including a moses basket or cot but think carefully before you choose something. 鈥淵ou could also use the carrycot part of your pram if you get one. Remember that babies soon outgrow their initial beds,鈥 says Pam. |
| Something to transport them in | Spend time thinking about this also, as it all depends on how you will be travelling, your baby鈥檚 needs and your budget. If you do have a car, for example, you might go for a 鈥榯ravel system鈥, which basically means a buggy that you can attach a car seat and carrycot to, though some of these can be expensive. Some parents also like to use slings for the first few weeks, which are great for skin-to-skin contact. |
| Baby clothes | Don鈥檛 go overboard 鈥 you鈥檒l probably get several outfits as presents. The essentials are vests and sleepsuits 鈥 and if your baby is born in autumn or winter, some warmer items. |
| Baby-friendly clothes for you | Think comfort and practicality. You need things that are easy to clean and need little or no ironing. Get yourself a coat with plenty of pockets and a hood, as it鈥檚 difficult to push a pram and hold a brolly when it鈥檚 raining. And mums: if you're breastfeeding, choose tops and outfits with buttons down the front and get yourself a big headband for all the days you can鈥檛 be bothered to wash your hair. |
| Change mats | 鈥淚f your flat or house has an upstairs, get a simple inexpensive changing mat for upstairs, as well as downstairs to reduce the amount of legwork,鈥 says Pam. Get a folding one for journeys and either a change bag or good rucksack with lots of pockets. |
| Muslin cloths | These have a multitude of uses, including wiping up dribbles. |
| Feeding kit | 鈥淏ottles if you choose to bottle feed, a steriliser, and if you are breastfeeding, a good supportive feeding bra and breast pads. Consider hiring a breast pump from your local maternity unit rather than rushing out to buy one that might not get used,鈥 recommends Pam. |
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Free ways to entertain your baby
New baby checklists can be helpful, but sometimes the best things in life are free鈥 especially when it comes to communicating with your newborn, says NHS Speech and Language Therapist, Francesca Ellis.
"There are some very snazzy toys on the market that sing and dance, but none of these toys are as good as you and your ability to play and communicate with your baby from day one. From the early days of life your baby will show an interest in your face and try to copy you."
They will also be in tune to your voice and using it is the easiest way to support language development.
No-cost top tips
- Use intonation: make your voice change so that you sound interesting when talking to your baby. Talk to them all about what you鈥檙e doing and going to do throughout the day 鈥 it gets them used to the sound of you chatting.
- Play 鈥榬eady, steady鈥 go鈥 games: sounds silly but at even an early age, if you repeat this phrase and use slow pace and intonation your baby will anticipate the 鈥楪O!鈥.
- Try peekaboo: smile and then hide your face with your hands and then repeat a few times. It's so simple but great for your baby's development.
- Stick out your tongue: give it a try and see if your baby copies you.
- Eye contact: make sure you鈥檙e seeing eye-to-eye whenever you can.
- And remember to SMILE 鈥 the simplest, most effective communication for your baby.
