Where is the feminine in the outwardly male-dominated Christianity? Theologians and believers tell how they connect with the feminine side of their faith.
Last updated 2011-08-03
Where is the feminine in the outwardly male-dominated Christianity? Theologians and believers tell how they connect with the feminine side of their faith.
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Any outsider walking into a Christian church could be forgiven for thinking that Christianity is a very male affair - you hear a lot about God the Father and God the Son, and of course in some of the largest churches, the person who represents Christ at the altar - the priest - is also a man. Judaism and Islam are similarly male-dominated.
So where does this leave women?
Where can we find those aspects of God which are really feminine - such as the nurturing, motherly side? And what does it mean for women to be worshipping a God who they think of as male, when there's no equally divine female by his side?
The trouble with the Father and the Son for many women is that it sounds too much like two buddies. It's like two buddies going on a trip, or a father-son relationship from which women are excluded.
Andrew Walker, Professor of Theology and Culture, King's College, London
Andrew Walker, Professor of Theology and Culture at King's College in London says the Holy Trinity of Christianity, consisting of God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Spirit, isn't quite as male as it may at first appear.
Christianity is particularly interesting because officially, and I'm being orthodox here, out of the Holy Trinity, the three Gods in one, only one is male. That is the incarnate son, the second version of the Trinity, Jesus Christ, because he was born a man.
God the father has a male name, but we know that procreation doesn't occur in spiritual world, so the only reason that Christianity ever came to call God father is because Jesus did.
Andrew Walker, Professor of Theology and Culture, King's College, London
And what about the third person of the holy trinity - the Holy Spirit?
A number of Christian feminists in the 1980s and 90s reclassified the Holy Spirit as feminine. I'll tell you what went wrong. What went wrong was that they turned the Holy Spirit into a typical Cinderella kind of character, so you had God the Father who was the big boss, then you had the second big boss who was Jesus his son, and then you had his sister who still had to defer to the son and the father.
So making the Holy Spirit feminine actually turned her into a caricature of precisely the sort of woman that feminists were trying to get away from.
Andrew Walker, Professor of Theology and Culture, King's College, London
One of Britain's most popular religious shrines is the shrine of Our Lady of Walsingham, in a village near the east coast of England.
Nearly one thousand years ago, the Virgin Mary, the mother of Jesus, is said to have appeared there and told a pious noblewoman called Richeldis to build a shrine - an exact replica of Mary's own house in Nazareth.
Walsingham still attracts hundreds of thousands of pilgrims every year from countries as far afield as Nigeria and Argentina, Ethiopia and the Philippines. What unites them is their unwavering devotion to Mary:
"First and foremost I find it easier to communicate with her as a mother. And for a long time now I have just regarded her as my personal mother, because my own biological mother is gone, is dead."
"The Blessed Mother will save the whole world. Mother Mary is Mother of all the people on the Earth."
"I've devoted my life to mother Mary, to God and to mother Mary, for all the graces they have given me. From a child she has been with me, I've seen her when I was five years... Whenever I'm in trouble, mother Mary seems to appear to help me out."
Many of the women who come to Walsingham don't see Mary as a docile young virgin, but a powerful mother figure.
"As a woman I see the blessed Mary as leader, because she was a strong woman, she was a faithful believer, and she risked everything, she lost her own son, and for me she was a model of a very strong person, and I admire this, because we have to be strong."
"I am a woman and I am a mother. Therefore I can identify with her. For me Mary is the feeling, compassionate Mother, the all-embracing Mother. I say that because being a mother I have experience of having children; in that way I connect with Mary."
To many lay Catholics Mary is the female gateway through whom they experience the divine.
After the pilgrims arrive at Walsingham village, many of them remove their shoes to walk the "holy mile" to the shrine as they pray the rosary and sing to Mary.
At the head of the procession, four men carry a beautiful image of Mary in colourful robes, seated on a golden throne, with the baby Jesus in her arms.
In the first of many services at the shrine, the image of the Virgin is crowned with flowers, and the pilgrims implore her to return to England.
The devotion these pilgrims show to Mary the Mother is very similar to the devotion of Hindus to their Mother Goddess Amman, or the worship of the Mother of the Earth by those who've revived Goddess spirituality in the West.
But Mary is definitely not a goddess, nor part of the Holy Trinity - even though the attitude of the pilgrims at Walsingham might fool the ill-informed into thinking that she is.
Father Michael Ray, one of the priests at Walsingham, explains just how close he thinks this form of devotion comes to worshipping Mary as a goddess.
It certainly would be going too far if people did get into worshipping her as if she were a goddess. That is not what we do, that is not what we believe.
But we do try to live out those words from her cousin: "why should I be honoured with a visit from the mother of my Lord?"
We do consider it an honour to pray with Mary and to Mary, and she is indeed blessed above all women.
[But] she's not divine. None of us regards her as God. [She's] simply a superlative human being who lived and loved only to do God's will.
Father Michael Ray, Walsingham
But if Mary isn't a goddess, there is still great argument about precisely what she does. Catholic theologians argue over just how important her role is in helping her son, Jesus Christ, redeem the faithful from their sins.
And there are campaigners who want Mary to become a much more powerful figure than she already is. They want the Pope to make an infallible statement "That the Virgin Mary is a co-redeemer with Jesus and co-operates fully with her son in the redemption of humanity." This is highly controversial because it would amount to giving Mary a status similar to the members of the Trinity.
In Turkey, Mary has replaced Artemis, one of the Greek goddesses.
When Christianity began to spread beyond the Holy Land, it arrived in areas where other gods and goddesses reigned.
Christians now sing hymns at the Church of St Mary the Virgin in Ephesus on the west coast of Turkey. But before Mary came, the Greek goddess Artemis was worshipped there, and there was a large temple in her honour.
The Christian Bible records how craftsmen who made silver shrines to Artemis railed against the newly arrived Christians who were threatening their trade.
But their protests were in vain - as Christianity gained a following in Ephesus, Mary replaced Artemis in the affections of the people. Mary even assumed many of the Greek goddess's titles, such as "Queen of Heaven" and "Mother of God".
(The angel) said: "I am only a Messenger from your Lord, (to announce) to you the gift of a righteous son."
Qur'an 19:19
Mary is an important figure in Islam, where she's honoured as the mother of the Prophet Jesus.
But anything like the veneration of Mary at Walsingham would be quite unthinkable for Muslims - so where do they look for the feminine aspect of the divine, and where do they find it?
When you look at the Qur'an it has one description of the essence of the divine. And language fails to describe the essence of that entity, which is indescribable and cannot be defined. But there is a description in the Qur'an, and the description is androgynous. Androgynous, gender-less, or even better, beyond gender.
My conclusion is that the divine as defined in the Qur'an is gender-less or even beyond gender. However, if the Qur'an is divinely inspired, when it was recorded it was recorded by a patriarchal culture. And the divine was turned into a He. So when you read the Qur'an you will find that "God said", "Allah said", and then "He said".
Fadia Faqir, Jordanian-British writer and feminist
And yet, if the Qur'an is divinely inspired, as Muslims believe, does this text inspired by God reveal a feminine side of God? There are attributes like compassion, kindness, and forgiveness, says Fadia - but to call them feminine may not be useful:
If God is an essence, you can't apply gender norms to an essence. So I wouldn't go there myself. The feminists in the West, they have turned God into feminine; they say she rather than he. And I don't know if it's going to be useful for us to turn God into a she. We cannot define God. So to apply gender is a bit hasty.
Fadia Faqir, Jordanian-British writer and feminist
The Jewish writer and filmmaker Naomi Gryn says that the God of Judaism, who often seems so angry and jealous - and male! - in the Hebrew scriptures, does have some feminine names.
I can think of two off-hand: El Shaddai, God of the breast, or El Rachamim, God of the wombs. ... and I love the idea of this image that we are all God's creatures fed by a single cosmic breast. For me, the female aspects of God are paramount. My faith is very very deep.
Naomi Gryn, Jewish writer and filmmaker
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