Help me out - the future
Find out more about thinking about the future.
What does the future hold?
We all focus on what鈥檚 coming next, and it鈥檚 important to be mindful about our future, but we don鈥檛 want to get carried away. While it鈥檚 important to have goals to aspire to because they can help us do better at school, worrying too much about the future can cause us more stress than is good for us.
You might experience a lot of pressure to know what you鈥檙e going to be 鈥 or perhaps you feel like all your friends know what they want, but you don鈥檛. It鈥檚 fine not to know. It鈥檚 far more sensible to take your time and make the right decision for you than to rush and make the wrong decision.
Some people have a clear idea of what they want to be in the future, but most people have no idea. Knowing what you want to do 鈥渨hen you grow up鈥 is a big question that many adults still ask themselves - so it鈥檚 a lifelong question that can change over time. It鈥檚 important to know that there are not just one or two chances to make up your mind. There are lots of options and opportunities to pick different routes through your life.
Dr Aaron and Chavala's advice on thinking about the future
Going your own way
It can be tough when the adults in your lives have strong ideas about what you should do, and those ideas are different from what you want.聽You may worry about letting them down. Tell them that you acknowledge that what they want is different from what you want, and be clear with them about why you want to do something different. If you can get some impartial advice from someone else and build a case, it will help them to understand. Having the determination and focus you need, along with a lot of hard work, will increase your chances of meeting your goals.
Choosing subjects
It can be hard to make decisions, especially when they feel important. Choosing subjects can be stressful for lots of reasons:
Worried about making the wrong decision? Remember you can always change your mind at another time.
If the choices on offer don鈥檛 match the direction you wish to go in, get some advice. Lots of subjects form the foundation for things you can study later.
Try not to direct what choices you make because your friends are in some classes and not others. There will be plenty of time to see them 鈥 you鈥檒l be spending most of your time in class studying anyway.
If you鈥檙e feeling confused about how to choose, take the time to talk it over with a trusted teacher and get some guidance.
When you don鈥檛 know what you want
Think about what you are good at. What鈥檚 your passion? If you focus on a skill you are already developing and enjoy using, then you鈥檙e more likely to find study or work that makes you interested.
If it鈥檚 still too early to know, cover all the bases so you have the widest choice available to you when you decide. There鈥檚 no 鈥渨rong decision鈥 鈥 if you feel you鈥檝e chosen badly, speak to someone, and use the next opportunity to change it.
You can always change course or subjects or retrain. If it鈥檚 really stressing you out get some advice from someone who knows 鈥 you don鈥檛 have to work it all out on your own!
There are so many options today 鈥 whether that鈥檚 university, apprenticeships, starting your own business or working for a great company 鈥 you鈥檒l find it, even if it takes some time.
The future is bright!
Worrying about the future is natural but it can also be a waste of energy. No one can predict what is going to happen and worrying never helps. The future is exciting and full of new, interesting experiences. Make sure you think about what makes you happy, what you enjoy doing and what you are good at and work from there.
The future is bright鈥 and the future is exciting!
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