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Everybody is different – and every body is amazing in its own way. The way we see ourselves, and how we feel about our bodies, can differ from person to person too.

Body image comes from the way we think about our faces and bodies – and how we feel about how we appear to others. Body image isn’t necessarily the image that you see in the mirror, it’s how you feel about that image.

Body image can be positive or negative, or a bit of both.

Lots of things can affect the things we believe about our bodies.

We might compare ourselves to other people and look at the differences, e.g. they are taller or shorter, have different colour hair or have a different body shape.

We can also be influenced by celebrities, or the things we see on TV, online and in magazines – although they probably don’t look like that in real life!

Sometimes other people can make comments (good or bad) about the way we look, and these can stick in our minds, even long after the other person has forgotten they said anything!

All of these things contribute to the way we feel about our own body image.

A positive body image is when we are happy and confident with our bodies.

It means we have a true and clear perception of our bodies (we see what’s really there and don’t believe something about ourselves which isn’t true).

If we have a positive body image, we accept and appreciate the natural way we look without wanting to change ourselves, and we don’t worry about how others see us. Your body is very much a part of who you are, so accepting it is a very important part of how you accept yourself as a whole.

It also means remembering that our value as a person is not all wrapped up in our bodies – there’s a lot more to us than just the way we look on the outside!

Having a negative body image means feeling unhappy, uncomfortable or upset about the way we think we look.

As we grow up and our bodies change it’s natural to feel a bit uncomfortable or awkward, but we shouldn’t feel like that all the time.

People with a negative body image can focus on the parts of their bodies they don’t like, and pay less attention to the parts they do like. Sometimes we’ll hear someone say something negative about our body, and then we start to think it’s true.

We can also have an unrealistic or exaggerated idea of our own appearance, and don’t see ourselves as we really are. We do this when we compare our bodies to others that we think are “better” – bodies aren’t better or worse, only different!

Having a negative body image can not only make us feel low or upset, it can also mean we might not take proper care of our bodies, such as by not eating well or getting enough sleep. We can even get so hung up on our body image that we hardly think about anything else.

If you feel unhappy with your body, or find yourself worrying a lot about how other people see you, talk to someone you trust about how you feel.

There are lots of things we can do to help build a positive body image.

You only have one body, and it is something you should be proud of and celebrate.

For more information about organisations which offer advice and support, check out the Advice Helplines page.