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Just how accurate are TV shows when it comes to the ups and downs of childhood?

A lot has changed since 2002, when The Story of Tracy Beaker debuted on C成人快手, particularly our attitude to mental health, emotions and anxiety, but according to , 49% of parents still felt that there was stigma around their child having a mental health problem.

To see how stigma is represented in the very first episode of The Story of Tracy Beaker, we enlisted the help of presenter and NHS clinician Dr Ranj. Let's see what he has to say鈥

Friendships

Tracy Beaker is returning to The Dumping Ground, but her old friend Louise wants nothing to do with her. Louise is hurt after Tracy left with a new foster family and "forgot all about [her]".

This reminds Dr Ranj of the importance of friendships when you're a child and the emotional development we all go through when those friendships falter or disappear.

My friends from primary school, junior school 鈥 I鈥檓 not really in touch with, but at the time, they were my entire world.
鈥 Dr Ranj

His advice for parents: it might be a difficult conversation, but try to remind your child that it is normal and okay for friendships to end and it's something that happens to everyone at some point in life.

To help your child build their resilience, take a look at this article with psychologist Dr Sandi Mann.

Crying or hay fever?

After the disappointment of her most recent foster family, Tracy now has to watch her nemesis, Justine Littlewood, spending time with her dad in the Dumping Ground garden. She's crying, but when Peter asks if she's okay, she dismisses it as hay fever - "It's the Dumping Ground dust."

Dr Ranj sees Tracy desperately trying to communicate an emotion, but at the same time, "we鈥檙e trying to protect ourselves from how those feelings feel, or we may even be embarrassed about expressing ourselves."

Ranj also offers some support for parents and carers who want to access and address tricky emotions with their child - "Remind them that a lot of these difficult feelings are transient 鈥 they come and go. And going through them is normal, but by processing the difficult ones means that next time, when you encounter a similar situation, you鈥檒l be better equipped at dealing with it."

If you want to have an honest conversation with your child about their emotions or mental health, this Parents' Toolkit article has lots of advice to help you help your child to open up.

Aggressive apologies

Jenny, head careworker at The Dumping Ground, makes Tracy say sorry to Justine Littlewood for breaking her clock. This is a difficult situation for Tracy, as she doesn't particularly want to say sorry, so she settles for yelling apology - "SORRY! OKAY?" - and a hasty exit.

In this aggression, Ranj recognises a child who just wants someone to notice how they're feeling, perhaps without having the right tools to do so.

When I was growing up, if I acted out, my parents would often not have the right reaction to that, because they didn鈥檛 know any better. But we know better now.
鈥 Dr Ranj

His advice for parents and carers, who might be in a situation where their child is angry, shouting or being aggressive, is to take a breath, try to consider their child's motives for acting out and find a constructive way to communicate or de-escalate the issue.

If your child is lashing out after school, take a look at our article on after-school restraint collapse, for support.

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The Story of Tracy Beaker is available to watch on 成人快手 iPlayer

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